Listening to Inner Resistance

In the practice of meditation, concentration is both a gateway and a guardian. It leads us inward, but it also reveals the subtle resistances that often lie just beneath the surface of our awareness. Many meditators, both beginners and seasoned practitioners, encounter moments when it feels difficult to settle in. The body may be still, the eyes closed, the breath slow—yet something feels off. A hidden energy seems to hold us back, pulling our attention away from the stillness we seek. This is not failure. This is the practice.

Meditation is often described as a dance between effort and surrender. To concentrate is to bring the mind back, again and again, to the present moment—be it the breath, a mantra, the inner light or the sound current. But too much force creates tension. Not enough and the mind drifts. The art lies in the balance.

As Zen teacher Shunryu Suzuki once said, “When you try to stop thinking, it means you are disturbed by it. If you are not disturbed by it, it will gradually disappear.” Concentration, then, is not suppression. It’s an invitation—to gently rest the mind where we choose and to return without judgment when it wanders.

Listening to Resistance

That energy that holds us back? It often has something to say.

Rather than pushing it away, we can turn toward it with curiosity. What does this discomfort or restlessness reveal? Sometimes it’s fear of silence. Sometimes it’s unprocessed emotion. Sometimes it’s simply the momentum of a distracted world.

Thich Nhat Hanh reminds us: “Feelings come and go like clouds in a windy sky. Conscious breathing is my anchor.” When we bring awareness to what arises—without needing to fix it—we begin to transform the nature of our attention. Concentration becomes more than focus; it becomes presence.

The Role of Inner Discipline

True concentration is cultivated over time. In Sanskrit, it is called Dharana, the sixth limb of the yogic path, preceding deep meditation (Dhyana) and absorption (Samadhi). It is not merely a mental function but a spiritual discipline, rooted in devotion and patience.

Many spiritual traditions emphasize that the quality of your concentration reflects the quality of your intention. Are you meditating to escape or to embrace what is? Are you resisting life or surrendering to its mystery?

Tools for Cultivating Concentration

  1. Anchor the Mind: Choose a single point of focus—breath, a word, a visualized light, or inner sound—and return to it with gentle persistence.
  2. Practice Regularly: Even a few minutes daily builds the muscle of attention.
  3. Observe, Don’t Judge: Distractions are part of the process. Noticing them is mindfulness.
  4. Create Sacred Space: Meditating in the same place, at the same time, trains the mind to settle more quickly.
  5. Embrace Silence: Inner resistance may come from unfamiliarity with silence. Welcome it as a friend.

In the Silence, We Begin to Hear

Ultimately, the path of concentration is not about control but communion. It teaches us to listen deeply—to the breath, the heartbeat, the still voice within. Meditation is not about reaching a perfect state; it’s about being perfectly present with whatever is.

And in that presence, something extraordinary happens. The scattered self begins to gather. The noise fades. And what remains is a stillness that sees, knows, and loves.

As Rumi beautifully wrote:

“There is a voice that doesn’t use words. Listen.”